Your Kids and Their Cell Phones.

When today’s adults were growing up mom and dad’s biggest concern may have been doling out television time.  Today, there are a myriad of electronic distractions that can challenge your kid.  Cell phones and their usage rank right at the top.  One of the big questions today is…at what age should parents buy their child (children) a cell phone?

The short answer is…it is up to you mom and dad!  Sure, age is a factor, but your child’s maturity level should be the primary consideration.  When you hand your kid his or her first cell phone you are giving them a powerful communication device.  Now they can create texts, photos, and videos to be widely distribute.

This can be a very slippery slope and the decision must be carefully weighed including the issue of security and safety.  How to manage cell phone usage in your adolescents is today’s “television time”.  Let Dr. Steven Sussman help you with this issue and many others.  He is a child psychologist with offices in Mountainside NJ and Staten Island.  Please call him for an appointment at either office at (908) 217-8106.

Tweens and Cell Phones.

What is the correct age to give your child a cell phone?  It is all a matter of trust and maturity and there is no right answer.  In a best case scenario have them pay the monthly bill.  That will give them a greater sense of responsibility.  Preferably your “tween” will be on a family plan keeping the bill reasonable.  Expect them to understand the contract of the provider if they abuse or lose their phone.

Should you check their phone for the type of texts they are sending and receiving?  Again, this is a case by case consideration.  One rule that should always apply…the parent gets the passwords to any and all social media accounts.  Remind them to read what they write twice before they hit send.  That’s good advice for all ages.

For some tweens and teens cell phone use may border on addiction.  Do not ignore that possibility.  If you want the advice of a professional, contact Doctor Steven Sussman.  Doctor Sussman is a licensed psychologist for kids misusing their electronic devices.  Reach out to Dr. Sussman who has offices in Union County New Jersey and Staten Island NY.  Call him today and begin addressing the situation at (908) 217 8106.