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Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Gratitude Not Attitude.

These are words to live by, I am sure you would agree.  We probably wish our kids were on board with us about the above phrase.  It just seems natural to be rebellious.  Only with the passage of time do our children realize how grateful they are to have had you for a parent.  Well, maybe not that far, but certainly much more than they were when they were kids.

How can we get them from recalcitrant to resilient in a manner that works for all parties?  It has been a challenge for parents since the dawn of time.  How often have we heard, “my generation had more respect for their elders than this one”?  Upon reflection, we know that is not necessarily true, but proper relationships will help mold each family.

Professional advice and councel is not admitting defeat, it is asking for assistance in a very important and weighty family matter.  Start the New Year off right by contacting Metropolitan area child behaviorist Doctor Steven Sussman.  Dr. Sussman will talk to your kid about gratitude vs. attitude at his Mountainside, NJ office.  Call him for an appointment at (908) 217-8106.

Tuesday, December 6, 2016

Oppositional Defiance Disorder.

You have probably all heard of ADD, but what about ODD?  It is not as well known as a term of child behavior.  ODD stands for Oppositional Defiance Disorder.  Catching ODD at the right time is important because just about every kid goes through a phase of defiance.  When your child displays an ongoing pattern of defiance and argumentative behavior it may be time to address the situation.

Many children, even through their teenage years, may display other behaviors associated with ODD such as attention deficit disorder, mood disorders, anxiety, and even learning disabilities.  As time goes by they may even develop something called conduct disorder in which they display a pattern of disruptive and even violent personalities. 

It is important to notice and correct ODD at the right time.  If you suspect this may be a problem with your child, contact Metropolitan area oppositional defiance disorder Doctor Steven Sussman.  Dr. Sussman will assess your child’s condition and make recommendations from his Mountainside, NJ office.  Call him for an appointment at (908) 217-8106.