It sounds a bit convoluted at first, but once you understand the importance of empowerment for your kid you’ll see what I mean. It can be exhilarating to see your kids grow up and start doing things on their own. Now, it IS a bit terrifying to realize that someday soon they won’t need you anymore, but still, kudos to you for teaching your kids how to tie their own shoes!
Here are some methods to use to empower your children further –
1. Teach them patience. Tough to learn, even tougher to master.
2. Slowly, but surely assign specific tasks and responsibilities.
3. Give them something to care for…a pet, a plant, whatever.
4. Teach them respect without being dictatorial.
5. Show them the right path by behaving the way you would like to see them act.
There are more, of course, but the basics of human interaction and responsibility are the bridges that lead to maturity. My name is Dr. Steven Sussman. I have seen kids in various stages of growth and I know this…empowerment usually equals confidence! Let’s work together to bring that synchronicity to your family. Call me for an appointment at my Staten Island or Mountainside NJ office at (908) 217-8106.
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