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Monday, June 27, 2016

Where to watch the 4th of July Fireworks in New York City

Where to watch the 4th of July fireworks in New York City

It’s time for 4th of July Fireworks, NYC's epic celebration of all things America and one of the most exciting things to do in summer.  Follow the link above for a list of places to view the fireworks! 


Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Get Your Kids to Open Up.

It is important to get your children to tell you what is bothering them.  I know someone that used to run away or hide under the bed when Independence Day came.  Really!  His parents could not understand it at first, then they found out that he was terrified of the noise and commotion.  Simple things that we take for granted may seem like life or death for little kids.

As you discover more about your little one it is important how you react to new revelations.  Don’t make such a big deal of everything.  For example, if they get into dirt or mud don’t overreact during the cleaning process, especially if it is a somewhat rare occurrence.  We all would like some magic crystal ball to know when to intervene without being overprotective. 

When is the right time to consult a professional therapist?  There may be greater issues at play such as mild autism, anxiety disorder, or ADHD.  To get the answers you seek call Doctor Steven Sussman.  Doctor Sussman is a licensed child psychologist serving NYC and Northern New Jersey.  Dr. Sussman has offices in Union County New Jersey and Staten Island NY.  Call him today and begin discussing your preschooler’s issues at (908) 217 8106.

Thursday, June 2, 2016

Tweens and Cell Phones.

What is the correct age to give your child a cell phone?  It is all a matter of trust and maturity and there is no right answer.  In a best case scenario have them pay the monthly bill.  That will give them a greater sense of responsibility.  Preferably your “tween” will be on a family plan keeping the bill reasonable.  Expect them to understand the contract of the provider if they abuse or lose their phone.

Should you check their phone for the type of texts they are sending and receiving?  Again, this is a case by case consideration.  One rule that should always apply…the parent gets the passwords to any and all social media accounts.  Remind them to read what they write twice before they hit send.  That’s good advice for all ages.

For some tweens and teens cell phone use may border on addiction.  Do not ignore that possibility.  If you want the advice of a professional, contact Doctor Steven Sussman.  Doctor Sussman is a licensed psychologist for kids misusing their electronic devices.  Reach out to Dr. Sussman who has offices in Union County New Jersey and Staten Island NY.  Call him today and begin addressing the situation at (908) 217 8106.